I see that you are very detached from your wife, and perhaps you need to be, but neither of you can ride 2 horses with one backside. So bottom line, both of you need to decide what you want to do and then make it a priority. I get the feeling that you both are saying, "I won't commit unless you commit first", and without commitment the game that you are playing can last a lifetime. I agree with Just Me, baby making needs to wait until you two are fully committed to this relationship. I'm sure globe-trotting is a lot of fun, and if that is the lifestyle that the two of you choose, there is nothing wrong with it. But there is no reason to bring a child into the mix if the two of you are just going to keep going separate ways. Sounds to me like she really wants to go to France. What kind of love trip will it be if she has already decided to split with OM man when it is over? Sounds like she is using him to see the sights.
