CL - I think I'll try to find that post you mentioned, thanks.
My wife sent me an email yesterday morning before I left for the office. It was both reassuring and funny. I took the drive into the office to really think about things and came to the realization that, much like I have tried to do throughout this ordeal, I need to remember who my wife really is. It's not that hard now because she has returned. No fog. No alien. Like me she is nervous, she has doubts and she has trust issues. Although our trust issues are worlds apart, trust is still trust.
I got home from the office and she was already in her pajamas. I told her she looked very snuggly. I said you should come snuggle with this. I had bags in my hands and she said "Why, what do you have?" I put the bags down and said "Just me." She came up and gave me the warmest hug I've had in a long time.
Time, patience and mutual understanding.
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