Jak, Your frustration with your situation is understandable. You deserve a H who is present emotionally in the M. You're simply asking your H to stretch a little and try to open up more.
The question continues to be, does he need more time or is he perpetuating avoidance patterns and needs to be held accountable? Another question, is how do you manage your frustration? Do you live the highest quality of life that you can given the M you have, and accept your H's imperfections, or do you set expectations for him, and put the conflict in the center of your R, versus hidden as he wants?
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
