Hi there,
I was posting on another forum. My H came home a little over a week ago after a 6 month separation. I knew it would have our work cut out for us. I feel so insecure and afraid. It's hard for me to believe that he is here to stay this time and that the OW is out of the picture. Then I let my thoughts get to me and wonder...is there someone else. My H says he is here to stay. He did bring his stuff with him and has applied for a job here. (he was in another state). He has also talked about not wanting to sell our home and taking it off the market. I just feel afraid. Trust has been damaged on both sides. My C said to give him a week or two to settle in before talking to him about C. We aren't talking about the R. We are just spending time together. I could really use some help.


LuvMyHusband
Me: 41
H: 43
ch: 3
M: 7+ T: 10+
Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
Seperated: 9/07
H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008
Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA