I feel like I'm behind you a few weeks in our timelines and I'm still working on the "with or without her" attitude that I think has had so much affect on my WW the last 3 weeks. Sometimes there's a trigger (had one last night) that can affect that attitude so I have to keep reminding myself that it's her loss if she can't see who truly loves her even after all she's done.
I know what you are saying about the limited contact. In my sitch I'm pretty sure there was email/IM/phone contact for a while even after OM broke it off. I couldn't take it anymore and pulled my ace in the hole to end all contact for good (you can read about it in my thread) and since that time WW has been coming around slowly but surely. While that contact is going on the WW will never de-fog.
Keep up the good work. Your W would be a fool to not want to be with you!
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
