Her sister has been doing the same, but it sure seems like my W is purposely choosing employment that keeps her near drugs, alcohol and those people. The past couple of days she has also been very quiet and appears ridden with guilt all over again, I think she is already relapsing, only just over a week out of rehab. What a joke.
Then keep your distance. My sister gave me a quote a long time ago. I really thought it was terribly negative. However, in the DB world, I think it truly has creedence:
Quote:
God bless those who expect nothing for they will never be disappointed
Perhaps this applies here. Perhaps your wife may NEVER 'get it'. Who knows. The bottom line..from the first part of your last post, it is clear that YOU CARE...that your SISTER CARES...that YOU SEE CLEARLY. That's being a man. Don't lose that and never leave your kids behind. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;