Thanks so much for the link. I will read through it again when I have some more time. I browsed quickly and didn't see the 'special act as if' part but will find it.
I am trying to back way off and him filing is making it actually easier to see him now as the person I never wanted him to be hence making it easier for me to see him as the person I can no longer trust or be with or even desire to be with right now.
At some point he and I will be able to be friend again. That much I do know because of our 19 year history.
My plans/goals for when I get home: Get A Life which will include dating Do what is needed to provide for my kids at all costs without hurting H Pack up my home and prepare to list it
Will update later. H just sent text asking me to call him.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07