With porn, religious reasons aside, many woman feel, justifiably, that it is the same thing as infidelity. She was jealous (most likely).

If someone is ogling another woman whether in substance or in some media format, then you are not thinking of her solely. Taking it further with someone that has not been stable emotionally and their imagination begins to create all sorts of negative pictures in their mind.

DNQ, your hiding your "personal effects" are normal but would it have gone through your mind that she has something to hide if she quickly removed something from your view?

I am not picking on you because it sounds as though this is a hiccough, probably a "normal" one at that during this situation. It still sounds as though you two are heading toward a positive point.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God