I think W wants us both... HELP!

[Hope4us]

What about the OM? Is he married? Have a SO? That would be your best exposure route.

I did not expose to WW's family. Her dad passed years ago (the hadn't seen each other in years anyway) and her mom is her only real family member that she really cares about, so I avoided telling her. I told a few close friends of WW but she's distanced herself from them when they didn't tell her they approved of her "being so fortunate to find her soulmate. He has nothing to do with our problems".

The OP's spouse/SO would be the best person to expose to, to put pressure on the A.