Leave people alone long enough and they eventually reveal their true colours and trip themselves up.
I really do believe in this, all the anger directed towards me, all the accusations were to distract the attention away from himself.
As we begin to eventually exchange our finacial details, it would become apparent that whilst I have been upfront and laid all my cards on the table, H has been holding back and not playing with a full pack.
I don't know why H has even attempted to get away with this, has he forgotten how much attention I pay to detail.
He is living a secret life, we do not know where he lives, we do not know how he spends his time and who with, we do not know how he manages to spend so much money.
I do not need to know about his life, I dont have an interest in his life, but I would like to know what he does with his money. He earns a hefty salary and it is now apparent that he is spending way beyond his means.
Double Life ? Other Family ? Gambling ?
I need this expenditure to be revealed, his spending is a symptom, but I'm not sure what the underlying condition is, I'm sure as time goes on H will reveal more & more.