all right folks dont think less of me but i did text her tonight. it turnes out her work check never cleared yet like it was saposed to so we have 30 dollers in our checking account. So all i text was " i checked our bank account and your work check isent pending yet ( she has direct deposit so it shouls automaticly be entered T MIDNIGHT) we have 30 dollers in the account untill it is entered" i guess in my m ind this should not matter as its buisness not personel. I do admitt to you all that im a little worried as her check was going to be in by today. if she has desided to open her own accout im screwed for 10 days untill i get paid. it would also be shitty as she just spent 500 dollers of my last check on her new clothes.