I was reading this thread and wow let me just say that alot of the stuff that you are going through I am too. It has been only a month for me and she has left me overseas with the children.
I too wish for a good nights sleep.
I say hang in there keep doing things for yourself, I know that is helping me.
And who knows in the end all things are possible.
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