Journaling,

My H just text me at 10:30 tonight: "So I presume grandmas house isn't in my cards?"
I didn't respond, because why should I help him to get a new place when his lease is up, he just dosent want to have to do business with my parents who own the house due to not wanting to face them.

Then an hour later he text back and said "You think you have got me all figured out with your books, All I wanted was your heart, you just don't understand me at all.

I text back and said" Im sorry but I just dont want to be involved in this, it is not my decision, please try to understand".

He responded with "I understand completely". I didn't respond.

This was one of his many anger episodes where he blames me and says I'm the one that doesnt love him, when he has left me three times this year. He has turned into such a monster again.

At least now (after a year) I am not a mess about dealing with his nonsense and I know not to play into his crazy games he is playing.
TIPPER