To be honest I do not think there is. We are pretty nice to each other atm. Just can't bring up any R talk cause she then seems to shell up. From whatever people she has confided in mostly female co-workers and family. They have all said something along the lines of "about time, good for you, that is the right decision etc"
So atm she clearly is "At peace" with her decision and is happy.
I am on top of taking care of myself which is a damn good thing!!! I have dropped 32 lbs down from a 38-40 to 36 now still working on another 40 lbs. Seeing a lot of old friends.
I truely feel alive again! But I do miss her. I have acknowledged that this could very well be the end. I just have to stop psyching myself out during the day.
