Back on the Roller Coaster - OW still around

[micoms]

FA,

You could reassure H next time there is R talk that you want to start new, from this point forward that the past is gone. I like your idea to work with H to develop a plan to work together.

I've hoped we wouldn't get to the D before she'd want to work on getting back together. In her MLC mind she thinks that since she D's me her married OM will leave his W. He won't, he'll just use her. I've read where the WAS comes back and the LBS walks away.

W is coming to house tomorrow to go over what she wants from the house. So far all she wants is her knick knacks and the love seat. Sounds like she wants a clean getaway.

Mike