Thanks. No, not a cat owner, though I'm thinking about it, especially with a pending move. My primary love language is all of them! I've been described as very loveable, and very loving. But I definitely really like the physical contact. It's interesting because although in the last couple of years the sexual relationship wasn't very strong, we were constantly in physical contact: hugs, cuddling, feet touching while on the couch, etc. There was a lot of touch right up until just the day before she ended things. I would have thought that would have been something that would have changed as the emotional connection gets tattered, but no, it didn't. Now, of course, other than a hug at the end, there is no contact "allowed". I sleep with a hot water bottle and a pillow at night. I can tell you that it is a crappy substitute for my W.
