Its like they WAKE up and say "WTF" how did I get here? Where did the last X years go? Where is my family? My best friend? AND THEN ---- they see it. BUT IT has to be gone....
Hi cagz. As I was reading through, This made me stop and read again. No matter what happens what you had is gone. It can never be the same. The relationship has changed. You are changing. Your H who knows. The important thing is that so often, you get the feel reading posts that people want back what they had, but it can never be. Where we were led to where we are. Who wants that?
Anyway, you are going well and getting excellent counsel.
