Frank, our W's like to paint the picture in whatever form or fashion suits their needs at the time. When she says that you never let her love you, she probably means something totally different.
I find that you have to have some form of super filter in order to decifer what you are actually being told. It's like taking spanish class in high school for two years and then vacationing in Mexico and thinking you will be able to to understand everything that is said to you. Not very realistic.
As far as the Lexapro declining your sex drive, that happens at first. Give it a month or so. When I started taking it I had like zero drive, a month later.....Strong like Bull.........
