remember tree its still not finalised only filed. i dont know what state you live in but there still time to keep GAL and let her notice. you only give up when you want to. by GAL you let here see your cahnges. if by the time ther D is finalised she still hasent come around then your already on a path of healing. and tree is she wants to start dateing then mabey she already has someone in the wings, i dont know. but most of these " rebound flings" are not permenent in the least. the grass is not greener.