Heather - Sorry to hear about the latest downturn.
Dont worry about rushing anything. These things take a long time. It will be best that when you get back home that you take the papers that you are served to an L to get advice on how to proceed. I dont think you let this slide off you - stand up for your rights. From what you said about Maryland, it can take a very long time to get divorced.
You need to settle down and get some sleep tonight. My mother told me that if I ever have problems sleeping that Tylenol PM works pretty good.
It may be best to get into the mode of thinking optimistically of what your life will be like after a D. If you can do this, then you are truly detaching from this nightmare and it might improve your chances that your H might have a change of heart over time. I say this because I am at that point where I am moving ahead with wanting to get my D finished, however, my WAS is now having her doubts about her path she is taking in her life.
Many divorces are busted right up to the point of signing the final papers.
