Divorce Care is through some of the churches. If you have any trouble finding it let me know and I'll contact my friend and get the information to you. I know it was super helpful for this friend of mine.
I'd say don't expect your wife to be nice or give you extra time with your son. From what I've observed from others who have gone through this they usually "play the game" of giving their spouse as little time as possible with the children, and then at some later date realize that was a bad idea (and it leaves them for little social life!), and then complain about the spouse not spending enough time with the kids!!!
So don't get too crazed and be patient. Hang in there. Life will be good...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
