Is OM's OGF on the course with your W? If so you could try contacting her through the school/ college and tell her you would like to talk to her significant other - or tell OM you are going to try to contact OGF's significant other to put him in the picture too. Just a thought?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength