Kalni, My H also doesn't talk about our R. Once when I brought it up he said we were getting along better but he still didn't want to work on the M. Two weeks ago when I brought up that I would be willing to do MC he said he need to get his stuff together first.
I understand your S's confusing. Bless his heart. I know my Ds think things are better and getting back to normal. Last night was night 11 of H staying at the house. This morning all four of us were in my bedroom talking. It was as if we were a "real" family. I want to ask H WTF are you doing and when are you going to pull the rug out again?
