I hear you but I am not holding my breath waiting for her to come back. I am moving on with my life, taking care of my boys. I really think the involvement of children really changes the dynamics here. When a woman walks away from her kids, it is not the same as when she walks away from the spouse. I feel the pain like all the other LBS's here but my real pain is when I think about how selfish this act is and how placing your own needs and feelings over your children is just sad and totally unattractive.