Well guys I just spent some time reading Doing's thread and I've got to say you are doing good work. Maybe I should be taking a stronger stand. I said before that I'm not initiating communication and in fact, today is the first day I haven't gotten an e-mail from her at work in a long time. Don't know if that's good or bad but maybe no contact will make her miss me.
On another note, Doing's thread also reminded me of a resouce I have that I haven't really turned to much. I have a SIL who is W's confidant and also on my side. A little bit ago I texted her and asked her if she could shed some light on my W's feelings for me. She said my W has told her that since we started getting along again she's missed me. This is GOOD! Unfortunately, she told that to her sister a couple weeks ago and I know that OM is still around after she shared these feelings. So it's not enough to make OM go away, but it is enough to re-ignite W's feelings for me. She has got to be so conflicted inside... Do I just sit back and wait or do I try to take an active role in this? Keep in mind, W has been hiding her R with OM from me since about the time she shared this with her sister. W must be trying to keep both things going at once to see which is better for her... WTF?
