Affairs are fantasy, nothing more. Like I've read elsewhere, expose the affairees and they'll scatter like cockroaches under a rock when the light hits them.
Part of what makes an affair attractive is that the everyday problems of a REAL relationship aren't there. Do you think people in an affair fart in front of each other (ok, maybe a little too graphic, but true)? People in affairs don't have to pay bills, clean the house, get up with a sick kid at 2 am, worry about the price of gas, nothing. Exposure brings reality to the surface.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
