Oh... one other thought... is the area you'd "move" into in your house decorated? If not, maybe fix it up really nice, turn it into a "sanctuary" for yourself. You may remember me doing that. I never actually "moved" but it felt great to make a space that was all me.

It wasn't the intent but it also REALLY got my H's attention when he saw a formerly basically unused room turned into an obvious place for someone to live. He's only mentioned it once but it was shortly after that his attitude really seemed to turn around.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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