... When your spouse leaves, divorces you and has a sexual relationship with another, I think it preferable for one to look for another spouse. This is not the idealogical theologian in me. Rather, it is the practical view.
No argument there. Even with just the "divorces you" part. But my words were focused only on a pre-divorce setting.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
Hi Chevalle - I remember your sitch from earlier times. I have been away from the boards for some time as I realize the end of our M is near. I am trying to move on, but hold out hope. Who knows.
Although I have also gotten much closer to my religion and God, I sometimes feel that just because the lawyers shcedule has not allowed for the paperwork to clear the docket does not mean that my M is still alive.
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM
