Thank you. Yes, I thought of that this morning. No "excuse" for contact - no legal marriage, no kids, no commitment, she's not accepting of her sexuality, etc. I have never had anyone break up with me before like this but people I have "ended" it with - you're right - I have never looked back and have no desire to reconcile with any of them. But obviously many people do or there would be no hope for all the people on this site. Am I right on this?
Your last question - no, I suppose if the roles were reversed I wouldn't find that attractive. I'm not sitting around crying or "waiting" for her. Except as the rest of you do - no dating, still open to the possibility of reconciliation, etc. I've been advised on here before not to date anyone else yet. You think I should huh?
I love her with all my heart and feel like she will eventually call me (don't know when). We had something very special between us even though some of the time things were bad. Do you think I should give up hope?
Thanks. Yes, honesty hurts sometimes but thanks. K