Frank

Hope you dont mind me chiming in with 2c worth of possible rubbish advice \:\)

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"I wouldn't let her love me" has bothered me because I love HER, even NOW and I can't see how someone can STOP you from loving them. How could I stop her?


Remember she will be talking in terms of feelings and how she feels , logic is not part of this equation.

Remember to Validate , no matter how off course she is , it is how she feels and trying to battle that will only drive her further from you. Trying to make sense of it will drive you crazy.

I like to keep things simple.

Right now you are still focussed on your W . Focus on yourself , what you need to do to get yourself to a good place.
Its DBing basics,
Do you still have DB or DR books , have a good read .

Just remember she will talk about feelings and feelings seldom have much to do with logic.

Take care of yourself.

Dave


Me 47
W 44
3 kids
Bomb Dec 06
Seperated July 07

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