I guess W thinks old habits die hard, cos I had spent so much time snooping on her cell phone, (cell phones are the source of all information). She's told me she thinks her cell will always be an issue with us but she's said she's not gonna hide it from me. On a couple of occasions she had accused me out of the blue of snooping, so when I did look I found something. The last time she falsely accused me of snooping she gave away a clue, she said the reason she accused me was the cell was on a different menu to where she left it. I don't snoop now cos it would cause too much trouble.
Originally Posted By: fb2
How do (did)you tell she's cheating?
For me it starts with a feeling, instinct, but when I open my eyes there are massive clues left around. Like W distancing herself from me, avoiding eye contact. avoiding physical contact. One example was I used to give W a hug and a kiss before I left for work then all of a sudden she starts moving her head to avoid the kiss, shortly after this I find OM was back on the scene. Then there are the whispered or secret phone calls, when things were going on with OM W was constantly on the phone, not necessarily to him but constant phone calls and everything seemed to be a drama. Then there's the going out, W will tell me where she's going and who with with and I pretty much know her circle of friends, so if she if she avoids telling me then I know its trouble. Then there's late night text messages any text after 10pm was a cause for concern.
At the moment there are no phone calls, no drama and when W is going out she is going out with me. So all is calm for now.
