Thanks. I do wish she would have talked to me, but I am happy that she shared with me. She usually does not.
It does make me mad that she has this extemel high level of anger and resentment. It is all based on her being young when we got married and that we have moved a lot. I get it, but they were all decisions that she was involved in. Did I ever cheat, lie, abuse, neglect? No... Just ranting a bit to you kind folks, and my complete response to her is above.
I really wanted to ask her if status quo is related only to her inability to afford our current house. If that's the case, I would just rather know that. She knows I would continue to take care of the finances until it sells (been on the market for six mos.), and that I wouldn't really have a choice even if I was an ass about it.
Status quo is a good deal for her. She does not have to be the bad guy and file for divorce, we have been getting along pretty good, the kids don't know the sitch, etc. I'm pretty sure OM sitch went south, and so I would guess that is on her mind as well. Uh, sorry, that was more ranting. I just get the feeling that she has made her mind up that it's over, she is just in a place where she doesn;t have to say it.
I think I may wear my ring, but I feel like a schmuck wearing it. I thought I was in LRT, but I don' tthink she is ready to see that or care about that yet.
