I guess you snapped a little there? I dont blame you. You have been DBing all along, trying so hard, being a certain way and like you say, essentially you have been protecting your H from the realities of his choices as you dont want to pressure him. But then, it comes a point you just cant do that anymore? Your son needs something more. I dont know what you can do about that and I really feel for you, you must feel so powerless to stop your sons suffering (and your H has all the power, but is burying his head in the sand!). At least you have a brilliant T who is there at short notice to help you. Maybe she should speak with you and the kids and your H and the kids separately though, instead of all together? Is there no way you can get your H to go for MC with you?? I guess you already tried that and he wont?
I'm sorry that he didnt reply to your email..but I meant to tell you, nothing will happen until next week, or until after the Full Moon in Libra at least (about relationships) on Friday. Things could shift quite dramatically then, but I cant say how (I wish I could for myself also !!).
I dont know about you, but I am getting tired of all this..
Ali xxxxx PS: I wish I had all these adoring men on my thread! I am not trying hard enough :-) _______________ Me: 37 H: 34 T: 9 years ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07 Own apartment: 26 Jan 08 Depression confirmed!
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
