I think your sitch is different than mine...what am I saying? None of our sitch's are cookie cutter!!!
ONly your H really knows why he pushes away from you. Guilt? shame? who knows...be patient with him...your H is at home...mine NEVER talks about coming home.
None of them do it step-by-step---whatever that means.
Just hang in there...your H has issues with the OW and her clinginess...I am not sure if my H even has OW now...maybe he needs to finish with that first. just a thought...
Just keep doing what you're doing. Piecing is hard...no one knows better than you...you know that the REAL work has begun...
Hugs sweets, I know this has been hard for you....
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
