I may do that. It may be tough come holiday time...but I will have to endure. I understand about the "rot" but it is scary thinking that it may "grow". It is hard to keep your self esteem through this crap. She can be nasty alot of the times and you just think "why am I putting up with this?" I am on the ropes all the time. Not knowing if this is what I want. 17 years is a lot of wasted time but I wonder if I would be better off moving on. Love stinks!


H 42
W 37
M17 T20 years
3 daughters 11,11,14
seperated 11/26/07
EA neighbor/ moved in w/ him 2/8
Filed for D 01/08 finalized soon