I will keep posting. I've got a great brother and a great lady friend (not what you think, her and her hubby have been my friends since 8th grade) who have been helping me through this, but I find it soothing to write about the mess on this (and another) forum.
WW sent me another email today that she didn't have to. Since Sunday she's been contacting me while we're both at work. Hasn't done that since Sept (except to be nasty to me. If anyone ever want to hear what NASTY really sounds like, let me know).
She took the afternoon off work to pick DS19 up from school for spring break. I can't wait to see him! He's grown into such a fine young man. I bout burst inside with pride everytime I think of him (of course we're going to have to talk about his cell bill when he gets home)! He and I are going to go to a sports bar and watch the NCAA's all day Friday! It'll be another thing showing WW I'm having fun without her (not that that is the purpose).
Speaking of cell phones. Anyone else HATE their spouses cell phone like I do? My brother and I already have plans for it if WW and I make our marriage work. I have no problem buying her a new one, but I absolutely HATE what her cell phone stands for. Anyway, I'm going to take the phone to my brothers house and he's going to throw the phone up and let me shoot it with my late dad's single shot 10 gauge shotgun. I've dreamed about that for many a night.
I've also got plans for the victoria's secret affair garments. Big bonfire in the back yard while doing a victory dance around the fire! Honestly, WW spend close to $1200 on VS stuff the last year. Not all undies, some clothes also, but their are a couple of under garments specifically that I want to douse with lighter fluid and watch them go up in flames!
Ok, done venting. Talk to you soon.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.