I understand that as the stategy, the bad thing is that my divorce papers are in process. I will be divorced in 8 weeks at the latest. I guess if I really care I need to just not worry about the divorce papers and just continue with my life and let her continue hers. If she is meant to come back she will. They are only papers after all.

M 31
W 30
S 12
S 10
D 5

Bomb Jan 1
Sep Feb 1
Seeing OM Feb 10
Divorce Papers Given to Her 03/20....returned signed 4-9....she wants it as of now.