Affair is over and WW is responding

[Hope4us]

Ok, I can do that. Here's the cliff note version.

- WW and I relocated for work Nov 06.
- We both work for same company. I'm a manager, WW an admin.
- Good marriage until the move, even by WW's admission.
- According to WW, I'm a good dad, good provider, make her feel safe, make her feel comfortable, do more than my share of domestic chores, but OM makes her laugh and feel confident.
- Mar 07 WW starts affair with co worker after talking a lot about "friend at work".
- I suspected for quite a while, but she finally admitted 9/4/07.
- Got all the typical Fog speak. ILYBINILWY. Never Loved you whole marriage. Every time we ML it was only sex to her the whole marriage. You know the drill.
- After discovery WW would go away to see OM every other weekend as OM had moved ~250 miles away to another location with our company.
- OM lives 1000 miles from his W and kids. Moves from location to location every 2 years or so.
- Exposed to OMW on 11/13. OMW tells me this is the 4th or 5th affair he's had that she knows of. Also tells me he's an alcoholic, is physically abusive with her and verbally abusive to her and their kids. 2 of 3 kids hate him. Real piece of work.
- OM ends A according to OMW once she found out.
- WW tries to hook up with OM one more time after exposure. I called OMW 5 minutes after she's out the door to let her know.
- OMW tells OM she wants a divorce. This probably gave WW hope "they" could live happily ever after.
- OM seems to have broken it off but WW still hangs on to A.
- Early Feb I expose WW's STD to OMW who tells OM who rips on WW.
- End of affair as best I can tell at that point.
- WW says she wants a D at that time.
- I tell WW I will not agree to a "friendly" D and if she files I will counter sue on grounds of adultery.
- Began GAL and moving on with or without her that night.
- WW seems to be responding since that time.
- Sunday morning WW and I discussed buying a car for DS19. I told her I wouldn't agree if she was filing for D. WW says she's not going anywhere until "at least" DS15 graduates H.S.
- Since that talk, WW has been like a new person. Ok, really like my old wife.

That's the cliff notes version.