I need someone to be my yes and ears and to keep me on the straight path.
Kidding, about the moving in...but really thanks for helping me out!
me ---->it's good to come to these boards but sometimes I need to pick up a book instead therefore GAL without H as the main focus ---->enrolled in my support group although I was scared to death because I had never reached out so far to other people therefore 1) meeting new people 2) sharing my experiences in hopes of helping others positive feedback for me ---->get back to my passions, cuddling puppy,stop nagging kids, sewing,putsing around the back yard ---->laughing and putting a positive spin on things ( really hard but doable)
R (long term) ---->be happy around H but not excited, that would be too phony he will be able to spot that a mile away. Happy friendly and cordial. He will respond with the same. Even when he feels angry I will listen but not raise my voice, eventually he will respond with the same --->always look awesome, not that I didn't always take care of myself but now it will be inside and out. H is bound to respond to this.Happy attracts happy...right?
Am I on the right track with this NA?
Can you help me with some ideas?
E
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"