Right, and it appears that your H is attempting to help you feel more secure. I understand how tough it is, and it's going to take more than just this in the future to get through the rough times, but at least for now, know that he knew you were worried and made an effort to reassure you that there was/is nothing for you to worry about.
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...me wondering if he thinks he made a mistake by moving here.
You don't know what he's thinking. When these thoughts creep in, stop them immediately. They don't do anyone any good, and they're especially destructive to your PMA.
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I guess for now I just need to focus on the positives and be patient.
Great thinking! However, I would say focus on yourself and your PMA while noting the positives.
Glad to hear you're feeling well.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell