Well, I've read lots of your advice here, so me thinks if you could take a gander at my situation and let me know what you think.
I am acting "as if" everything is fine. He really wants me to be fine. He loves her just like he used to love me. They won't see each other much (every other month maybe) so that adds to the Umph of the relationship.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too