I hear you on the Excess emotion front. I think it makes H feel worse when I show emotion and im'e proud to say that when he brought up the most recent turn of events last night I actually kept my emotions at bay very well.
I haven't really went through the others you mention. Well maybe anger for the confusion he causes me to feel.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
