I am feeling better today. I do feel like I overreacted to her calling. H wasn't hiding anything...and he can't help it if she calls him. It isn't like he was running off to talk to her.
He is being more transparent Michelle and I think I do still need time to heal.
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Your H says it's not the big romance you're imagining it to be. IOW, he's saying to you that he does NOT love OW.
I know he doesn't love her. If he loved her he wouldn't have moved 1000 miles away from her. They are nowhere near each other and couldn't see each other even if they wanted to. I am being irrational and it is just my own insecurities and me wondering if he thinks he made a mistake by moving here.
He did tell me back in November that he had made a huge mistake and ruined the only good thing in his life. He said he felt his life was falling apart and he was just bringing me down with him so he was trying to do me a favor by leaving.
I guess for now I just need to focus on the positives and be patient.
