Yes, OM is a snake. I know he has been behind her escalating her charges of being afraid of me and of me hurting us financially.
W frequently told me that OM constantly would ask "Are you ok? Do you think he's going to hurt you?" This is what has heightened her fear of me.
As for the finances, OM was one of the two "trusted and knowledgable" sources W ran our banking statements through. He told her I was severely mismanaging our money. So, he has also helped w/ her fear of being poor like she grew up.
I'm a bit nervous about today's meeting w/ the parenting evaluator, but I know as long as I'm being myself, telling the truth, and focusing on what is best for my D, everything will come out ok.
