Great quote! So what are YOU thinking today, Neecy? I hope positive thoughts. ;\)

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My H has been different since Sat night. He has called me Neecy or Denisey a number of times which he has not done post-ow. Everytime I get up he wonders what I am doing now and why I can't just hang out with him. I have not asked if he has called OW, he probably has, but he hasn't left my side while I have been home. Very different, situations keep evolving.


That certainly was a big 180 you pulled on H over the weekend! He never saw it coming, and that is why HE panicked and began chasing YOU \:\/ . Nicely done! Show him you are not to be taken for granted and that you do not rely on him for entertainment. You can have just as much fun by yourself and you CAN resist him.

He thought he was in control for a while there (you know he was, too), and he feels it slipping away now. That's why he wants to keep you close by. He's trying to regain that control.

Continue to be there for him as a friend and nothing more. Hang out with him a little here and there, but be the first to break away. Have other things to do.

BTW, in a previous post, you stated that all recent boundaries had been blown. What did you mean? You can send me an e-mail if you don't wish to post it here.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell