She just called to ask me a couple of questions about her laptop, and a program that she wanted installed on it.

W: "I guess I'll just bring my laptop to Easter dinner at Mom's, and you can install it then?"

Me: "Sure, sounds good" I said. "So you wanna do anything between now and then?"

W: "Well it just sounds like you are so busy".

Me: "I'm going out with friends tonight and I have another thing tomorrow...but Friday is a holiday, maybe we can grab dinner or something".

W: "Yeah, that sounds nice"

Me: "OK, I'll be in touch"

Like my DB coach says...throw little things out there and see how she responds. If badly, don't do it again. This was a good response. But it is 2 days from now....a LOT can happen in 48 hours!!