For those of you who do not know me, as Mick Jagger said, please allow me to introduce myself.
My W and I were separated for 6 months, she filed for divorce and I DBed my ass off. After a lot of hardwork and changes, W and I started dating. Things got a bit hot and heavy and to make a long story short, I moved back into our home about 2 weeks ago.
I am finding "piecing" to be a bit challenging and I am open to advice from those with experience.
Here is where we are....
1. In terms of our relationship, I am a few steps ahead of W. I told her I was fully committed to our marriage for life, she says she is almost there.
2. We have been getting along really well. Playing tennis, doing dinners and lunches, lots of 2nd honeymoon stuff.
3. When we have a few drinks, we are all over each other. We started having sex again.
4. W was dating a guy during our separation. She said they never had sex (who knows), but said that he is a loser and a buffoon. Her friends confirmed these facts. I think they still keep in touch due to business reasons, personally I could care less - no competition.
5. A friend of Ws recently confronted me and said that my W does not understand me and that if we should separate again, she wants me. I told her that I was committed to my marriage, but if my W was not, I was open to a relationship with this woman. Wow!
6. W is a bit unpredictable right now. One day she says she loves me 10 times, the next day zero.
7. We are heading to the Caribbean for a 1 week vacation on 3/31. Should be a lot of fun!
8. W hates relationship talk. Drives her nuts. I must stop doing it.
9. W hates text messages. I have stopped doing that.
10. I have whipped our house back into shape. It was a mess after me being away for 6 months.
11. I am reconncecting with our daughter. Harder than reconnecting with her mom!
I continue to GAL, DB and give W lots of space.
I am open to advice, I have only been home about 2 weeks and I do not want to F this up!
