That is really good advice...."I just want a great family," I'm going to try saying more stuff like that and stay away from the marriage talk!!
H came over this morning to see son. I was really surprised that he actually showed up. WE had a great morning. Had fun together for the first time in a while..or at least I did. We joked around, went into town and let our son run around for a while then went and got lunch together. H was crappy when he left but I think it was just because he had to go to work.
H made several comments to me today about "our house, or our car" things like that, lots of marriage comments. I joked with him and corrected him "my car and my house" we laughed about it at least so that was good. H made comments about us being married and not looking at other guys, blah blah said something about me needing to follow the rules. I said in a laughing voice "you dont follow them so why do I have to". So we said stuff like that back and forth today but it was good to sort of kid around about it too. He always talks about us being together and how he is working on things but I'm not sure exactly what that means and I'm not going to ask at this point either.
