Jak, If you're thinking of separation, perhaps you need to be talking to a therapist. Separation is a serious decision, and should not be done out of frustration, but be planned for.
I know that when my frustration increases, my mind wanders towards escape routes and fantasies. We are in a vulnerable state at times. Separation is a viable alternative at times, but it shouldn't be something you spiral into.
Seek a therapist.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
