But things started changing the night she said she wanted a divorce. She wanted us to do it as "friends" for the kids sake. I told her that night, I would not help her with the divorce, if she wanted to file I couldn't stop her, but I would get a lawyer, counter sue on the grounds of adultery and fight for my rights, including custody of our son as he needs a stable household and she wasn't stable right now. I also told her I wouldn't lie to the kids and would tell them the EXACT reason we were divorcing. I started the LRT that night without knowing what it was and then a couple weeks later bought DR and started following it. I started going out (always looking nice and fresh with aftershave) either by myself or with one of the guys who works for me. I quit telling her I loved her, quit telling her good night, quit asking how her day was, basically quit acting like I cared what she did. I took DS15 to the UP of Mich for a long weekend and didn't call her once. I just was gone for a week for work and didn't call her once. And lo and behold, when I got back from the work trip last weekend, she really started to come around. She had started before last week, but on Sunday this week, she was like a different person.
Good lord, we could use some of that fresh air and thinking on the Infidelity board -- c'mon over!!!!
